How Do I Talk to Customers?


“You’ll learn more in a day talking to customers than a week of brainstorming, a month of watching competitors, or a year of market research.”
Aaron Levie,

Do you talk to customers on a regular basis?

Does your startup have a customer development strategy?

Do you have a method to receive consistent feedback from your customers?

If you answered “no” to any of these questions, it is probably time to start thinking about how you can talk to customers. Here’s why:

Customer development can be an often overlooked part of building a company, but it is just as important as meeting with investors and building a marketing strategy. It’s not always an easy thing to do, so here are our five tips to help you talk to customers:

1. Be Genuine.

When you talk to customers, it is important to be genuine. Act like a human and don’t give them generic, canned responses in order to set your company apart.

Alex Turnbull, CEO & Founder of Groove, spent 4 weeks talking to 500 of his customers. He says, “A funny thing happens when you focus on unscalable activities like talking 1-on-1 with your customers: people notice. Your customers notice, and then they tell other folks about the awesome experience they had.”

So don’t be a robot. Treat each customer’s unique questions, concerns, and complaints with empathy and adapt your communication style accordingly.

2. Be Prepared.

Before you talk to customers, make a plan – don’t just wing it. You will want to do this to make sure that you are getting the most out of every conversation and to ensure that you are consistently able to repeat the delivery of your discussion.

Make a script. Do your research. Know what questions you want to ask and what topics you want to cover. However, remember that you don’t always have to follow your plan to a T. Things change in the moment and you should adapt your discussion accordingly, but it never hurts to have a plan.

It is important to also prepare yourself to hear things you don’t want to hear. This is where change and growth happens – yes, it is uncomfortable, but it is necessary if you want to continue your company’s success.

3. Choose Your Questions Wisely.

This goes hand-in-hand with preparing to talk to customers. Choosing the right questions can make all the difference between a good conversation with a customer and a bad one.

The number one mistake startups make when talking to customers is that they ask what customers want. Never ask customers what they want. It is too broad of a question, and you’re likely to get an answer that you can’t actually use. Instead, ask these three questions, as suggested by Charles Liu, Design Researcher at KISSmetrics:

  • What are you trying to get done?
  • How do you currently get this done?
  • What could be better about how you do this?

It is also useful to ask more open-ended questions than yes/no questions, or to follow up a yes/no question with an open ended questions. For example, try asking “What are the most useful features of our product?” instead of “Is our product useful?”

4. Don’t Sell.

When it is time to talk to customers, it is not the time to sell your product or pitch your idea to them. It is time to listen to their wants, needs, concerns, and complaints.

The purpose of conducting an interview with a customer is to validate your ideas and learn about your customer. You are looking for answers and knowledge. These people are already your customers – you don’t need to sell them anything else.

5. Talk To One Customer At A Time.

It may be more efficient time-wise to conduct a focus group or group interview with your customers, but it is more useful to have multiple one-on-one conversations with your customers. In doing this, you will create more meaningful connections with customers and get more honest and in-depth answers from them.

Don’t be a afraid of silence, either – embrace it. People are naturally inclined to fill the silence, so let your customer do it. If you give your customers 20-30 seconds after they finish speaking, it will give them time to think more, add on, or broach a new topic.

It is helpful to take detailed notes or record each session in order to use the information you gather later on.

After You Talk to Customers . . .

The easy part is over. Now it’s time to distill the information you collected into a neat, useful package to be used in product development. Look for patterns and use your judgement when you’re reviewing what you’ve learned.

Check out this useful guide for organizing and analyzing your notes once you’ve finished talking to customers!

Remember, developing your customer base is meant to help you figure out what customers really want – it isn’t just about doing whatever they say, so read between the lines.

Here at Altitude Accelerator, we know that building a startup can be difficult. That’s why we created a blog series called #HelpMeStartup designed to clear up some common confusions among first-time startup entrepreneurs. 

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